Charles Addams and his wife before College Hall, the structure at the University of Pennsylvania that inspired the mansion seen in the Addams Family cartoons. Known as a "ladies' man," Addams married several beautiful women, none of whom were murdered.
Sunday, January 21, 2024
A Memory : A Curtian Of Green
She talks about the pavilions, painted white, that circle the shore. There was no Pearl River Reservoir in her youth and no Lake Hico. Neither of them brought in sand to make a beach anyway. It had to be Livingston late.
That happens a lot when people from here read Eudora Welty; they'll run across a bit that suddenly starts to sound familiar, and then a smile of recognition comes to the reader. "I know this place."
Saturday, January 20, 2024
Hell Broke Luce
In 2007, the parents of 23-year-old Jeffrey Lucey filed suit against the Veterans Administration for wrongful death in the case of their son Jeff, who committed suicide after suffering from PTSD stemming from his experience in the Iraq War and the Battle of Nasiriyah.
His case inspired singer and songwriter Tom Waits to write the song Hell Broke Luce, which is about Lucey's experience.
How We Pray
I see a lot of talk about people praying for help or hoping that God "hears their prayers." In Christianity, we've cultivated this idea that if you need something, and if you've been good, then you should pray for it, and, like Santa Claus, God will give you what you asked for.
I've always wondered if it worked that way. Jesus said that God is like the shepherd looking to rescue his lost sheep, so it's clear that when we're in trouble, God knows our needs and begins working on what we need long before we ask for it.
Sometimes, people use prayer to thank God for the blessings we've already received. Do you think that's necessary? I'm sure God knows that once you admit you're aware of him, that makes you about as grateful as you're capable of being.
Maybe the best use of prayer is a time to pause in life and willingly and consciously try to connect with the higher power. Just for a moment, you're like the limp and lifeless Adam in the Sistine Chapel painting, reaching out your feeble finger to touch the omnipotent finger of God. All your needs, he's already noted. He's already noted all your gracious thoughts. Prayer is a moment in time when you can recharge your life's batteries by touching the infinite source of power, and you can do it as many times, every day, as you need it.